Last year at this time, I was swamped. I was doing so many things and feeling awful about it all. The fact that my house had little to no holiday decor really had me feeling down in the dumps.
The thing is, I love the holidays and I love home decor (duh). So when I was seeing all the perfect spaces people were sharing all over social media, I felt like I was failing because my life wasn’t perfect.
But I learned such a huge lesson! This perfect image that we all put forth is a front. Nobody is perfect, and to idealize them that way is just setting yourself up for self hate. Really you should be lifting yourself up with others that you admire. Learn to appreciate what you see but know your own strengths and weaknesses. Don’t compare yourself to that ‘perfect’ image that someone else is putting out there.
Especially at this time of year, things are busy. Work is hectic with end of year stuff, life is busy with holiday season commitments, tis the season for all things sparkly and magical and chances are, you want to be included in that magic. So do yourself a favor and give yourself a set day to work through your holiday magic. Set up a few fun vignettes and change out the wreath on your door.
Don’t over-commit yourself this season. This year, we are going to be out of town for Christmas meeting my parents and sister for a little vacation and it will be the first time we have had Christmas with them since P and I started dating. I am so looking forward to it! But I also know that it means, less holiday parties, a little added work stress making sure things are all settled before we leave, and not as much time at home to soak up my holiday decor. And ya know what? I’m okay with that… I’m looking forward to it actually because this year, my holiday season is going to be amazing inspiration, and so much fun!!
I hope this quote hits home for you as much as it does for me! Rebecca Stone really says it well, “Perfection is not only the enemy of good; it’s also the enemy of the realistic, the possible and the fun.” The other good quote that comes to mind is “Comparison is the thief of joy.” Because if everything in life was the same picture perfect scene all the time, everything would be so boring anyway.
I hope you all get to enjoy this holiday season, I can’t wait to share more decor and inspiration with you!! The abridged version of this Rebecca Stone quote in the graphic is shared on a background of Benjamin Moore’s Forest Green, which made me think of Christmas Trees and Holiday Wreaths! I can’t wait to deck the halls at our condo!